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Wednesday, 5 February 2020

Humour: Do Some People Use Humour As A Defence Mechanism?

There are a number of things that make life easier to handle on this planet, and being able to laugh is one of them. This ability serves a similar purpose to oil; it allows life to flow that little bit easier.
Without oil, a machine would soon end up seizing up, but while the world probably wouldn't come to a standstill without laughter, it certainly wouldn't be the same. Instead, it would be like living a life that is in black and white.
A Gloss
Being able to laugh, then, will be what gives life that bit of extra sparkle. So, let's say that someone is experiencing a fair amount of stress; they will be able to watch something that will help them to relax.

Monday, 23 December 2019

Why We Treat Strangers Better Than We Treat Our Loved Ones

We shouldn't treat our loved ones less kindly than we do with strangers. However, this what we often do. We need to try to improve our tolerance with our loved ones' idiosyncrasies, so that we won't regret about how we treated them.
But don't do this because you need to recharge your tolerance for the things about your loved ones that annoy you. Do this to acquire a new perspective. Get out into the world and try to appreciate the good in your loved ones to have a balance view of the things that frustrate you about them.