Showing posts with label mindset. Show all posts
Showing posts with label mindset. Show all posts

Wednesday, 4 March 2020

Keep Trying, Don't Give Up, Failure Is Just Part of the Process!

Most of us on this planet are trying hard to increase our income to support our families and help siblings or friends that are really battling, or we may be fighting to conquer a habit or an addiction, and it's hard going. We try and we fail. We try again and we fail again. We give up for awhile then we try again and we fail again. After a while of this, we tend to get discouraged or even depressed. The thing is, this is very normal.
Failure is a normal part of the process of reaching success. We tend to hear of those people who start a home business and immediately rake in the cash, but these are the freaks of the success spectrum. I happen to know a lady personally who is like that - everything she tries immediately turns to gold. But she's not normal. The massive majority of us have to battle through many failures before finding success, so don't give up, keep trying!!

Saturday, 15 February 2020

Hit A Wall

Not again. I can't believe this is happening to me. Am I ever going to catch a break? I can't trust anyone.
Sometimes you just hit a wall. Other times you are making a choice to be a victim. It is your mindset that causes the murky waters. Yes, there will be times when life isn't fair. And I never wish to minimize anyone's suffering. But we need to ask ourselves if we are causing self imposed suffering? I think we all are guilty of this at some point in our lives. But so many have the "Not Again" attitude that is draining not only them, but everyone else around them.
I see this all too often in my practice. A new client comes in and tells me all the terrible things that are happening to them. I go into support mode and begin to line up some action items to stop the suffering. Over the course of a few months, no action items have been completed, let alone attempted. There is blame being cast at every person that is left in their life. And lastly, the slowly stop showing up for their appointments. It's hard to support someone who self identifies as being a life long victim.

Thursday, 6 February 2020

Delayed Gratification - Waiting for the Reward

We live in a world where everything is designed to give instant results.
Drive-throughs, pre-packaged food and microwaves allow us to eat in minutes without having to invest time and energy into preparation or to wait for regular cooking times. The internet provides us with information that we might otherwise have had to research in a library or gain from interviewing an expert. We don't even have to dial full telephone numbers to reach friends or family because of speed dial. Everything is designed so that we get what we want instantly, and credit cards challenge us to "buy now and pay later" even though we will pay more for the purchased items because of interest charged.

Monday, 20 January 2020

How To Overcome Feeling Stuck In Life

It's All Perception
You've tried everything to improve your life, but nothing changes. Frustration develops and you're disappointed because you're unable to resolve the situation.
Allow me to put your mind at ease over the coming paragraphs.
Here's the good news. Remaining stuck is only a perception and does not represent your actual reality.
Now the not-so-good news. Feeling stuck is a sign something needs to change in your life. You might have an intuitive impulse to make those changes, but resist doing so for fear of change.

Monday, 25 November 2019

Self-Motivation - Surprises Are Part of Our Lives

INTRODUCTION:
Self-Motivation is a very important activity in our day to day life as we don't know what surprise will come and at what time.
We have to motivate ourselves to ensure that the surprise is being handled appropriately and WE SHOULD NEVER GIVE UP. Even though the surprises are common to everyone lives and every one motivate them to handle their surprises and take it forward.
We have to motivate ourselves to ensure that the surprise is being handled efficiently and functionally. We attempt through our article, to share ancient ideas and techniques to walk you through this journey of life surprises.
Hence, we have to understand that some of the important surprises & techniques to self-motivate in handling the surprises.
GENERAL SURPRISES:
1) Financial Surprises: Generally, the companies or individuals will have a budget, unfortunately, the days may not go with the same budget planning. There may be a surprise in increase or decrease of the budget. This in turn, disturbs the financials. For projects in a company, the financial surprises can be corrected through appropriate contracts & claims management and for individuals it can be corrected through self-motivation techniques.
2) Health Surprises: Health issues may come up at any time which we cannot anticipate. We always should maintain discipline in our food habits, do daily exercises and drink appropriate water, which may avoid the health surprises.
SELF-MOTIVATION TECHNIQUES:
Any surprise or any issue can be corrected through self-motivation techniques as mentioned below:
1) Firstly, we should analyze in depth about the surprise or the issue. We have to make a note point on WHAT, HOW & WHY. By answering these simple three words we can understand the reason for the surprise or the issue.
a. WHAT: What happened?
b. HOW: How it happened? How it went wrong.
c. WHY: Why this happened? What are the corrections?
2) Secondly, doing meditation and thinking on the solution for the surprise or the issue. In this way, we can get the solution and go forward.
3) Once we answer the What, How & Why, and for corrections, we should do meditation by taking a deep breath and concentrating on the breath and thinking on the corrections.
4) We have to continue the meditation till we find out the solution. Depending on the surprise, sometimes, we will find the solution in 2 - 3 times and sometimes it may take days.
5) We should NEVER GIVE UP and we should continue the meditation till we get the solution and certainly we will get the solution through meditation for any issue/surprise/problem.
6) After having a solution, we have to make a clear roadmap for solving the surprise or issue with a contingency plan.
7) Finally, we should always follow another 3-word principle, Plan, Check and Act, this 3-word principle can ensure to resolve the surprise or issue.
CONCLUSION:
1) Generally, we face several problems in our day to day activities and we get panic or scared on an occurrence of such problems.
2) If we follow the techniques as mentioned above without getting panic or getting scared, we can easily resolve such problems by finding solutions and we can go forward in our lives and achieve success.
3) This article is to support the reader in addressing their problems/issues/surprises in an appropriate manner without getting panic or getting scared.
4) We request you to share this article after going through as this may help your friends to overcome their problems/issues/surprises.
5) All views or opinions or statements given in this Article are personal, which are in our knowledge/ information and do not signify any professional advice.
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Handling the challenges in the appropriate manner. We know how to face the challenges, but, when the time of real challenge comes, we will be blank. Hence, get prepared by going through this Article which may help at the time of challenges.


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